Once there was a tall rock in a stream 
It was so large that indomitable it seemed 
It stood firm against the fiercest tempest 
It did not yield to the occasional knocks and bumps 
 
Water in the stream however did not stop 
On meeting the hard unmovable solid rock 
It flowed around the free space beside 
To continue its journey of flight 
 
In flowing around, the water rubbed off 
Very tiny part of the rock’s basal stock 
With passing of time the rock tumbled down 
Being eroded by the most fluid of forms. 
 
So in life never forget that the rule 
 ‘The soft overcome the hard’ is really true 
Be soft, gentle and flexible over things 
That are in the hard, rough and bigoted rings
Han Min Ohn
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-soft-and-the-hard/