I thought I'd been broken 
I thought I knew pain 
Words easy spoken 
Before I went insane 
  
Love for me had died 
With anger and disgrace 
I had to decide 
My heart was lace 
  
My love had been tested 
I had but one fate 
My soul never rested 
And took your bate 
  
Your kiss so soft 
I felt so free 
High in that loft 
Finally again just me 
  
I warned you away 
From the heart I lack 
Since the pain of that day 
I just want you back 
  
I say what I mean 
And meant what I said 
If you could have seen 
My heart is dead 
  
Don't break yourself 
Like I broke me 
I love yous on a shelf 
With only a memory
Amanda Deupree
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/heartache-defined/