FROM all the rest I single out you, having a message for you: 
   You are to die--Let others tell you what they please, I cannot 
         prevaricate, 
   I am exact and merciless, but I love you--There is no escape for you. 
 
   Softly I lay my right hand upon you--you just feel it, 
   I do not argue--I bend my head close, and half envelope it, 
   I sit quietly by--I remain faithful, 
   I am more than nurse, more than parent or neighbor, 
   I absolve you from all except yourself, spiritual, bodily--that is 
         eternal--you yourself will surely escape, 
   The corpse you will leave will be but excrementitious. 
 
 
   The sun bursts through in unlooked-for directions!                 10 
   Strong thoughts fill you, and confidence--you smile! 
   You forget you are sick, as I forget you are sick, 
   You do not see the medicines--you do not mind the weeping friends--I 
         am with you, 
   I exclude others from you--there is nothing to be commiserated, 
   I do not commiserate--I congratulate you.
Walt Whitman
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/to-one-shortly-to-die/