never mind if everybody  
complains he is irritable 
 
god makes you two meet up 
probably because you need  
just a slice of what makes him  
irrtiable - a  clear view  of the  
abundance that he has and  
that nagging  insistence,  
persistence and drive 
to put himself across 
 
on him these may be irritations 
but on you, on you, so docile and timid,  
they are actually  strengths to light you up
john tiong chunghoo
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/weaknesses-that-become-strengths/