He remembers her 
a little girl 
 
 changing her 
(she changing him)       
 
her first steps 
to him 
 
unsure 
but certain 
 
her laughter 
(his crying)       
 
tears 
(the sheer pleasure of her)       
 
all she had to do 
was exist 
 
to be his happiness. 
 
He remembers 
her little kiss 
 
the tiny hand upon his face 
 
remembers all 
the people 
she has ever been 
 
his growing daughter 
child to teenager 
 
the young woman 
she was becoming 
 
dead 
at 18.
Dónall Dempsey
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/oh-my-pretty-one-for-my-dad/