First, I gave up asking, Why?  
for I was never told the truth;  
now I live in whylessness;  
 
then I gave up asking, How?  
for they said, best find out for yourself;  
now I live in howlessness;  
 
then I gave up asking, When?  
for they said, who can be sure?  
now I live in whenlessness;  
 
then I gave up asking, Where?  
for they said, where is it not?  
now I live in wherelessness;  
 
then I gave up asking, Who?  
for they said, first know yourself;  
now I live in wholessness;  
 
and now I live without these questions,  
the answers run toward me;  
 
now I am more here and now, and  
elsewhereness near gone;  
for elsewhere’s here and now, I find;  
and Other’s really One.  
 
*  
 
[leaning on Rumi]
Michael Shepherd
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/being-here-now/