Has the time arrived? Is it here?  
Must I at last believe the mirror?  
Must I accept, must I confront my fear 
that my reflection is no ghastly error?  
Gazing from the cave where my soul clings 
I see past shadowy nose the lizard folds 
that used to be my burnished satin skin – 
I can’t deny that I am getting old. 
 
I hardly need a mirror made of glass 
to tell me the reality, and why 
I don’t meet ardent glances as I pass 
and I’m invisible to passers-by. 
But let the passers-by keep passing by – 
my beauty is created in my lover’s eye.
Janice Windle
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/growing-pains-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/