Getting into any kind of arguments at home is not a way to solve the problem. It is extremely important for parents and children to understand each other's point of view before reaching any conclusion. In this video Niruma tells us different ways how such situations can be handled and resolved amicably without any ill feelings towards anyone. http://www.dadabhagwan.org/scientific-solutions/relationship/parent-child-relationship/how-to-deal-with-defiant-children