Selena Gomez Says Fan 
Relationships Can Be 'Really Heavy' Gomez would like to have more 
direct communication with her fans, but she feels it can be overwhelming and 
has recently decided to take a step back. Selena Gomez, 
to Apple Music Selena Gomez, 
to Apple Music Gomez shared some of the key traits she looks for in a 
romantic partner, saying she wants to date someone 
who doesn't try to hide their true intentions. She recently revealed that she 
wants a boyfriend who is "genuine."