First and foremost thing is that one has to realize their true Self. As visible outwardly, there is also an inner world, which is subtle which although could not be seen but could be experienced. Attaining the awareness of true Self, we can see this inner world as separate and whatever is happening within is to Mr.xyz(one's name) and not with us and is separate from us.
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