The Crisis & Solution:
🔥 Where We Go Wrong:
"Which school for our kids?" → Fights when one wants Islamic school, another wants "prestige"
"Hajj savings vs. new car?" → Resentment builds when priorities clash
"Prayer space at home?" → Shock when one spouse never valued it
"Halal income standards?" → Explosions when discovering dubious earnings
"Family dinner at halal restaurants?" → Arguments when values differ
💡 The Prophetic Prevention:
Pre-Marriage Vetting:
"What’s your 5-year plan for our children’s Islamic education?"
"How do you prioritize Hajj vs. worldly expenses?"
Monthly Check-Ins: Designate a "Deen meeting" to align goals
