The 3-Step Prophetic Plan:
1️⃣ The Ultimate Dua for Spouses (Quran 25:74)
Arabic: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ
Meaning: "Our Lord, grant us spouses and children who will be the coolness of our eyes."
Key Tip: Many happily married couples trace their barakah to this daily dua before marriage.
2️⃣ Istikhara: The Reality Check
Myth Buster: No dream needed! Allah guides through:
Sudden clarity in decision-making
Doors opening/closing naturally
Pro Tip: Pray it before emotions cloud judgment (e.g., after first meeting).
3️⃣ The Background Check Most Skip
Investigate:
Deen in Action: Does he pray Tahajjud? Does she fast Mondays/Thursdays?
Akhlaq Under Stress: How do they treat service workers?
Financial Integrity: Halal income or "flexible" standards?