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The TRUTH About Putting Others First Is It REALLY Worth It

2026-02-01 1 Dailymotion

The Power of No-Self There is a secret "trick" to surviving the hardest moments of your life: you stop thinking about yourself. When you remove the "I" from the equation, you remove the pain. By living entirely for your team and your mission, you transform into something more than a person—you become a machine. It’s the ultimate tool for servant leadership and high-stakes performance.

The Hidden Cost of Being a Lever But here is the catch that most "grindset" gurus won't tell you. You cannot live like this every day. While treating yourself like a machine—a simple lever to move the world—can get you through the fire, staying in that state is a recipe for a delayed, massive emotional toll.

Finding the Balance We often praise people for being selfless, but there is a fascinating danger in going "beyond oneself" for too long. This conversation dives deep into why your greatest strength in a crisis can become your biggest liability in everyday life. Learn when to be the machine and when to be the human.

Transcript: You said one of the tricks is when you stop thinking about yourself because when there's no self, there's no pain, and you start living for your team, the people, the other people suffering. I love that, totally understand that servant leadership, wanting to go beyond oneself. But you pointed out something really fascinating. You said it can lead to pain later. Explain that because I get that. So I've had this mentality for years. It got me through a lot of hard times. You cannot use it every day of your life. You cannot use it. I use it as like my God, this is the perfect—I found it. This is the trick. You just totally—you don't even matter. You're just a machine. You are a machine that just—just like a lever. That's all you are, man.

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